Saturday, May 18, 2013

"Legs"


Legs


Legs are amazing things.  Attached to the lower base of your body.  They are known to transport you from one place to another by the use of your feet. Legs come in many shapes and sizes. I’ve had my legs for over 50 years. I shouldn’t be so critical on the outward appearance of my legs. I have put them through a great deal.
 I began using them right from the start. Walking was something I did as a young child because … I could.  Most families only had one vehicle.  Therefore, you carpooled, used public transportation, rode a bike, or you walked. We chose to walk. Most families did.  We enjoyed the slow pace of walking, looking at the sights and talking.  We imagined, and created stories in our minds and shared them with our siblings. All while our legs took us from one place to another.
I walked to school from first grade through fourth grade.  Walking to school was a great way to catch up on all the neighborhood happenings.
After school, we would walk home and then to our friend’s house. There we would run and play outside for hours.
As I grew into early teen years I put my legs through a whole new array of torture.  I began gymnastic. I abused my legs for hours on end practicing various gymnastic runs and tumbles.
In middle school, a new fashion came out.  I wasn’t thrilled about the new fashion, but I didn’t want to be left out, so I joined suit.  Four inch platform shoes! We were so cool!!  Mine were white.  Because white matched everything, right?  Now all the girls towered six inches above all the boys instead only two. (What were we thinking?) 

Oh, and then there is the countless attempts at shaving my legs.  I’ve removed hair and inches of skin with one swipe.  I have the scars to prove it.

Fast forward- college and the endless walking from building to building. I never understood the reasoning on building the academic halls so far apart.
Marriage, then shortly after marriage we had the little ones to chase around. (Not to mention, taking our babies on long walks like I did when I was a child) Standing on my feet was a norm.
Teaching school for sixteen years, wearing various shoes, from heals to tennis shoes still added more wear on the legs.

Now, I’m a grandma. The highlight of my day is chasing grandbabies around the house or the yard. These old legs still move, and with great ease I might add. (Not that it doesn’t cause me pain or creak or crack when I move.)

Now, on to why I even mentioned my legs in the first place.

A few evenings ago, my dear husband and I were shopping for running attire at a local sporting good store.  I collected a fair amount of the new and upcoming styles of running ware to try on in the dressing room.  Feeling quite proud at my new style I had gathered, I strutted to the dressing room only to find a HUGE full-length mirror facing me on the other side. (Full-length mirrors are evil) I’m pretty sure this mirror was made to make all objects to appear larger than they really are.  I started to grumble and decided to rise to the challenge and try on my new running fashion outfits and be proud that I am again preparing for the ultimate race of my life.  A FULL marathon before I turn 60.  Last December I ran a half a marathon. Skillfully coached by husband the avid runner that he is.


As I tried on the first pair of running shorts, (that came equip with a darling little skirt with the cutest pattern ever!  Definitely, the set for me.  It had a young fresh, youthful look to them! After all, you’re only as old as you feel. Right?)
I slipped them on. Perfect fit.  Did the school girlish twirl in the dressing room, looking at the shorts/skirt at ever angle, WHEN I spotted “it”.
It” was ever so present.  I’ve seen small traces of “it” before, but NEVER so proud and pronounced!  It was as if “it” wanted to be recognized. Acknowledge for all its hard work.  “It” started as a small faint line of the prettiest light lavender, and then spread out like a run in an old pair of pantyhose!  “It” was my mothers purple veins.
I gasped!!!  Fell back on the chair in the dressing room!  I jumped up and twirled around again; just to make sure the fluorescent lights hadn’t hit my leg wrong.  No, it was true.  A crop of purple veins had made their way to my leg and was making a loud announcement! They screamed:  “ Google Map” has text and want to use your legs as an alternate route!”  I shook my head.  Sat down and pondered my dilemma. 
I did what any 50 year-old woman would do.
I found the cutest little Capri tie-dye running pants ever!! Made my purchase and went home!

Here’s my conclusion: 
I am 50.
I’ve walked thousand of miles on these legs, ran a couple hundred, and stood for hours!
I used these legs to pace the floor with babies crying in the middle of the night with fever, knelt to pray to my heavenly Father, and to walk in the sunset with the love of my life.
I plan to walk many more miles on these legs. I have many places on this beautiful earth that I’d like to see.
Thank you Lord for allowing me these strong legs to walk and go the places I’ve gone.  I know you will carry me whenever they are too weak to walk.  You always do. 
I will smile and be proud that they are a more colorful shade of flesh.  You gave them to me and I will wear them well.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Springtime.. and replanting..

There is just something about digging in the earth. (I like calling it earth. Dirt, sounds so dirt-like.  Earth, rings with the sound of God speaking it into existence!) That was profound.  None the less, there is just something about the feel of the soil breaking within your fingers.

Charlie and I have spent the past several evenings and week ends digging, getting rid of the old lifeless flowers, breaking up the soil, replanting, fertilizing, and admiring our gardening skills.

This is what I've learned:
1.  We all go through seasons.  With each season, we require some tweaking from the Lord.  We have to DIG into God's word to know what needs tweaked.

2.   Some of our flowers might be dead and lifeless, so we need to pull them.  They may have been good for a season.  But, if God says pull them; pull them!  He has something better for us to plant.

3.  Clear the clutter.  I've had to clear the clutter in my mind.  Clutter can be good stuff, but it can sound like static from a radio.  When you have static, it's hard to hear from God.  Breaking up the clutter with God's word, has freed my mind to listen to God. 
 In the following weeks, I've read several things that talked about cleaning the "clutter" from our minds, so that we could hear God.
That my friend, is confirmation.

4.  Replant God's Word in your heart!! I am now on verse 5  on memorizing God powerful word!  I can definitely attest that this is the work of God.  I could not memorize without God's help.  He has put a desire and yearning for his word in my heart!!!

5. I pray God's word in my prayers, which is the fertilizer to my soul.  I can't GROW without God's Word; it nourishes my life, so that I can be what God wants me to be.

So, I am thankful for Spring, the Pollen, the Sneezing,(ok, maybe not the sneezing) but most importantly, the beautiful flowers, that are a reminder to me of how God is using them to speak to me.


As an added bonus, Charlie and I have had a blast working in the yard together.. We even went off-roading it in the ATV. oh yah.. that was fun!!!  


God wants us to have fun!!!


Friday, March 22, 2013

Pity Parties are not from God


During my morning devotions, I had an "ah-ha" moment.  Now, for me that doesn't mean the sky parted, an azalea bush was burning in my front yard or a voiced boomed over my iPhone.
God spoke to me the same thing through three different short devotions.  Yes, I said three.  I know, I know, I know.  You are thinking... you have GOT to be kidding me.  I barely have time to say, "Good Morning God, HELP"
Well, I have three devotional readings I try to read from, usually not all in the same morning, but this morning was different.
The first was from my devotion, Jesus Lives: by Sarah Young. It doesn't matter what day it is, this devotional hits it out of the ball park every time. 
God has used this one to "talk AT me" more than once.
The other was from my online: Daily Hope by Rick Warren and then I began a new book about When A Woman Trusts God by Sheila Walsh.


They all stated the same thing!

GOD IS GOOD!!
EVERYTHING THAT IS GOOD, IS FROM GOD!
GOD CAN ONLY DO GOOD!
GOD'S WORD IS ENCOURAGING!

I know, you are feeling quite sorry for me about now.  You are thinking, Really??  You are just now getting this?  How old are you?  You've been in church how long? You should have learned this in Sunday School, when you were...like.. four!
So, just back up the truck, honey.  Let me explain.
I struggle more times than I care to share, about looking at the bad in things more than the good. It's a little crazy, in some areas I'm extremely positive and others, yah, not so much.
Have you ever had a pity party and no one came but you?
It doesn't even have to be anything major. (Parking places, broke nail, someone didn't speak to you when you smiled at them, having a feeling fat day, bad hair day, I should have done this, or that... the list goes on.)

Pity parties are not from God. OUCH!!
God is the Perfect Party Planner!! He has a Enormous Party planned for all of us!!

Here's the "ah-ha" moment.
When I put my focus on what is WRONG in my life, then I am taking my focus off what is GOOD. 
God is what is GOOD in my life!
Satan loves for me to focus on what is wrong. 
He is what is wrong. He's the author of lies. 
That little bugger! He's been lighting the candles on my pity party!
When I read my Bible every day, and fill myself with God's goodness,mercy and grace, then the focus is on God! That pleases God.  I'm all about doing that!

So, I am now in a:
Pity Party Free Zone!
God is my Focus, not the imperfections in my life.


Wooooooo Hoooooo !!

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable- if anything is excellent or praiseworthy- think about such things.  
Philippians 4:6


Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Everyone Needs a Friend Like This.


              Everyone needs a friend like this!
                                         I borrowed this from someone... somewhere...

                    1. When you are sad, 
I will jump on the person 
who made you sad, 
like a spider monkey 
jacked up on Mountain Dew!!! 

2. When you are blue, 
I will try to dislodge 
whatever is choking you. 

3. When you smile, 
I will know you are 
plotting something 
that I must be involved in. 

4. When you're scared, 
we will high tail it out of here. 
 
5. When you are worried, 
I will tell you horrible stories about how much worse 
it could be until you 
quit whining, ya big baby!!!! 

6. When you are confused, 
I will use little words. 

7. When you are sick, 
Stay away from me 
until you are well again. 
I don't want whatever you have.... 

8. When you fall, 
I'll pick you up 
and dust you off-- 
After I laugh my rear off!! 

9. This is my oath.... 
I pledge it to the end. 
'Why?' you may ask; 
-- because you are my FRIEND! 

Sunday, December 30, 2012

Welcome 2013... More.. Less

Welcome 2013!
I'm so glad you decided to join us.  You're predictable like that. Dec. 30,31... then January 1st.  Just like the calendar predicted. We knew it was coming. No surprise here. 
So, what are your resolutions for 2013?
One of my many resolutions, I found in this Post:  I love it!



Now, I realize, not everyone will make me happy, and that's fine too.  I want to be a true servant of God, and I want to be "that person" in the Post:  I want to make people happy, laugh, help them in need.  I never want to take advantage of anyone.  I want to truly care. That is my hearts desire.

For this to happen:
I made a list of things I need More of... and things I need Less of...

More and Less... List..

More Jesus.... Less Self.
More Intimate deep conversation with my husband, and less idle chit chat.
More HUGS to loved ones..... less busy walking about..
More Walks on the beach with the ones I love... Less sitting and asking the sun for more wrinkles.
More quiet time with God... Less time on Facebook.
More reading good books for fun.... Less time reading study books.
More running with my husband... Less thinking about it...
More self acceptance... less worrying about what others think.
More talking to strangers... less looking at others, and wonder their story.
More inviting people over... Less concern if my house is clean.
More thinking before I speak... Less talking off the top of my head.
More listening... Less being too busy to listen.
More going to sporting events... Less watching them only on TV
More dancing like no one's watching ....Less Disco Points!
More kissing grand babies... Less kissing Gracie..(sorry Gracie)
More looking FORWARD... Less looking BACK
More face to face time with friends... Less e-mails and private messages.
More watching the sun rise and the sun set... Less being in the house.
More Laughing... Less being serious....
More driving with the windows down and the wind blowing in your face.. Less stuffiness
More blowing bubbles with your bubble gum... Less mints.
More being spontaneous .... Less making LIST!!!


What do you need More and Less of?




 It's gonna be a GREAT Year!




Wednesday, December 12, 2012

H.A.P.P.Y

H.A.P.P.Y
Things that make me happy.

1.Jesus loves me, this I know.  (ya know ya wanna sing along!)
2.When my hubbie smiles that sweet smile at me. :-) wink-wink
3.Grand babies giggling!  (and kisses)
4.The sound of crunching leaves under my feet.
5.Cool breeze blowing on my face.(I'm pretty sure I could hang my head out the window of the car while it flies down the highway at 65 miles an hour and smile at the breeze like Gracie. Only to find myself being committed to the nearest mental hospital.)
6.Happy toe tapping music!
7.Walks on the beach with the love of my life.(Charlie)(note, there is a breeze on the beach too!)  I feel a pattern here.
8.Running with my husband.(he encourages me, and pumps me up!) Note: more breeze while running..
9.Laughing.  I love to hear people laugh! Life is too short to not laugh.  Bahahahahahaha!
10.The smell of a new puppy.  They smell so sweet, you can't help but grin.
11.Christmas!!!  Christmas makes me happy!!  I love looking at Christmas lights!  The more the happier!
12.Laying in the hammock with my husband and grand babies.(another cool breeze moment)
13.Going shopping with my grand daughter.(she makes shopping fun)
14.Charlie Brown Christmas.
15.Listening to my grand babies sing. (it doesn't get any sweeter than that!)

What makes you happy?  Make a happy List.  By the time you're finished, you'll be Happy!!!
Happy Happiness To You!!

Monday, December 10, 2012

Half-Marathon!!


This Half-Marathon... is just the beginning.

 Half-Marathon 13.1 Here we come!!

This was my goal.
I've never done anything this athletic in my life.
I knew I would be turning 50 this year, and I wanted to accomplish something BIG!
This my friend.. was BIG for me.
I had a great coach! (Charlie, my sweet and wonderful husband of nearly 31 years!)
He encouraged me and pushed me to my goal.  (I could tell by the twinkle in his eye, he was proud of his wife.  That made it worth it all!)
My daughter and her husband, also trained for the race.
She was one of my biggest cheer leaders!!

This is only the beginning Randy!!

Melissa is the little energizer bunny!!  She zips around the course like a jack rabbit!

Notice... before the race began... we are all smiles..... clean... not red in the face, sweat is not dripping off anything.... yeah.. this will be short lived...
And we're OFF!!!

One last hubbie and me pic.  He was great!  he would run ahead of me, turn around with his phone and take my picture... He was documenting my greatest athletic accomplishment!!  He's so cool.

this is after the race....
I finished in 2:43 min.
Megan in 2:32
Jeremy in 2:20
(I'm sure I have the times off a little...they'll correct me.. no doubt.)

Who knows? Maybe this time next year, I'll run the Full Marathon.  Stay tuned.
Then off to Charleston for the rest of the day.
Note:  We all walked a little slower..... and moaned and groaned a bit... well, all except Charlie, who was laughing at us...